{"id":2847,"date":"2015-01-01T11:08:02","date_gmt":"2015-01-01T16:08:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/?p=2847"},"modified":"2015-01-01T11:42:05","modified_gmt":"2015-01-01T16:42:05","slug":"light-in-the-tunnel-mishpacha-1214","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/light-in-the-tunnel-mishpacha-1214\/","title":{"rendered":"Light in the Tunnel  (Mishpacha 12\/14)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>The K. family\u2019s living room was well-lit. But neither the sparkling chandeliers nor the glowing fluorescents could banish the darkness that prevailed there.<\/p>\n<p>As long as there were only suspicions and conjectures, they managed to somehow suppress them. But when the unequivocal results arrived, they could not ignore the facts anymore. The father of the family, the supporting pillar, the broad shoulders that carried the entire family \u2013 was diagnosed with cancer.<a href=\"http:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/pr-anxiety.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-2732\" src=\"http:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/10\/pr-anxiety.jpg\" alt=\"pr anxiety\" width=\"224\" height=\"152\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Malka felt as if the sky had crashed down on her. At night, on the tear-drenched pillow on the ward, she had a frightening dream, blacker than black. <!--more-->With the first light of morning that shone into the ward, a ray of light radiated to Malka, a ray that with time emerged as a flaming torch: The Ezer Mizion Cancer Support Division entered the picture and embraced her in a cushion of warmth, empathy, and support in every possible area.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe change began the moment I was approached by Blumi Willner, the indefatigable head of the department. With a warm, sincere smile, she introduced herself and asked- no, literally pleaded with- me to transfer this entire load to her,\u201d Malka recalls.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThe help she offered was like a lifeline for me, both from the physical side and the emotional aspect. They provided us with medical counseling, took care of the maze of bureaucratic matters that had me to<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-2850 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/pr-general-bldg-DG857322-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"pr general bldg DG857322\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/pr-general-bldg-DG857322-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/pr-general-bldg-DG857322-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/01\/pr-general-bldg-DG857322-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>tally lost, sent us hot meals, babysitters, and help with housecleaning and laundry. They provided \u201cbig brothers\u201d for the kids, helped transport us to the hospital and back, and took shifts by the patient\u2019s bedside. They treated us to a rejuvenating retreat, included us in support groups, and more and more and more, until we arrived at the \u2018happy ending\u2019 <em>baruch Hashem.<\/em> I cannot imagine how we could have gotten through this dark course without the guiding light of Ezer Mizion.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Ezer Mizion\u2019s Mental Health Center has a terminology all its own. Rabbi Yehuda Silver feels that he is entrusted with a power station of souls: \u201cThe soul of man is G-d\u2019s candle,\u201d he quotes, and explains: \u201cWhen the soul is hurt, this light is extinguished. Here we operate a range of projects and rehabilitation programs for the mentall<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-557\" src=\"http:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/07\/pr-mental-illness-sounds-of-the-soul-1.jpg\" alt=\"pr mental illness sounds of the soul 1\" width=\"200\" height=\"219\" \/>y ill and their families. We even have a Center for the Musical Arts, \u2018Sounds of the Soul,\u2019 along with occupational rehabilitation, social experiences and ,of course, Torah classes. These activities restore the person\u2019s basic belief in himself and pull him out of the dismal pit of mental affliction. And so, every day here, dimmed eyes become radiant, with flames of vitality once again glowing within them, and another pure Jewish soul emerges from darkness to light.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>You can recognize Efraim by his smile. Once, he was a Down\u2019s Syndrome child, today, he is a Down\u2019s Syndrome adult \u2013 so he has known Ezer Mizion for years now.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy Mom refused to hide me the way they used to hide kids like me,\u201d he says in his typically direct manner. \u201cBut she didn\u2019t know who would help her raise me. She put me in a stroller and went to the Ezer Mizion branch, which was very small at the time, but even then, everyone knew that you can get help there for any problem. My Mom likes to tell how I stuck out my tongue at everyone, but that didn\u2019t scare them off. They just stroked me and wished my Mom that she should see lots of <em>nachat <\/em>from me.\u201d<a href=\"http:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/pr-spec-CP-matan-Purimparty-2014-2.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-2282 size-full\" src=\"http:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/pr-spec-CP-matan-Purimparty-2014-2.jpg\" alt=\"pr spec CP matan Purim[party 2014 2\" width=\"275\" height=\"183\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/pr-spec-CP-matan-Purimparty-2014-2.jpg 275w, https:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/04\/pr-spec-CP-matan-Purimparty-2014-2-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 275px) 100vw, 275px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Efraim\u2019s mother relates how throughout the years raising her special child, Ezer Mizion were like her eyes, giving her guidance and counsel, encouragement and assistance, lending her the necessary rehabilitative and medical equipment, and even helping care for the child, through the afternoon clubs and summer retreats.<\/p>\n<p>A glance at the Geriatric Services Division reveals the great devotion and respect accorded to applicants. Seniors here are treated royally, based on the deeply rooted Jewish belief that the elderly deserve the utmost honor since they are the crowning glory of the generation. The Division operate<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-2272 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/pr-golden-2-14-yom-tzilulim-DSCF1639-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"pr golden 2 14 yom tzilulim DSCF1639\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/pr-golden-2-14-yom-tzilulim-DSCF1639-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/pr-golden-2-14-yom-tzilulim-DSCF1639-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/03\/pr-golden-2-14-yom-tzilulim-DSCF1639.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>s in a number of areas in the goal of supporting the elderly and illuminating their days by improving their quality of life.<\/p>\n<p>The organization\u2019s Transport Network also includes a number of areas: Ambulances transport patients who needs require the special equipment available in the ambulance. In addition, tens of thousands of volunteer drivers transport the frail or ill in their private vehicles.<\/p>\n<p>In this same manner, important medical materials are also transported from the Center of the country to the North and from the South to the Center. Every day, more than a hundred such requests are posted.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes it is more complicated. Here is one example among many that happened recently: On Monday, the world stopped for a family in one of the cities of Israel. The mother was diagnosed with a serious illness and the entire family felt that the earth was pulled out from beneath their feet. Ezer Mizion rushed in to do whatever they could to envelop the family with everything they needed. When they asked about meals for Shabbos, the father said that he would be with his wife in the hospital and the children would be scattered among relatives. Then, three hours before Shabbos, the mother of the patient decided that she would stay in the hospital w<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-514 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/pr-Shabbos-300x297.jpg\" alt=\"Table with Silver Candle Stands Beside Wine Chalice and Loaf of Bread\" width=\"300\" height=\"297\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/pr-Shabbos-300x297.jpg 300w, https:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/pr-Shabbos-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/pr-Shabbos-1024x1015.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/06\/pr-Shabbos.jpg 1033w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>ith her daughter, so that the father could be home with his children.<\/p>\n<p>A small light flickered on fifty screens: \u201cShabbos meals needed for a family of ten.\u201d In fifty homes, they started setting aside portions from the food that was ready, defrosting ingredients, rolling up their sleeves, and sending out flickering, glowing messages: \u201cWe\u2019ll prepare ten portions of fish, \u201cThree salads \u2013 taken care of,\u201d \u201c\u201dFive challahs waiting here for pickup,\u201d \u201cSeven portions of chicken and a tray of oven-baked potatoes, \u201cTen schnitzels will be ready in another fifteen minutes, \u201cDessert for two meals,\u201d \u201cShabbos will be here in another hour and a half, and I\u2019m starting the pickup now\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>And so, within an hour, the dishes were collected and brought to the family\u2019s home. With tears in his eyes, the father accepted the generous delivery. When he lit the Shabbos candles and poured out his prayers for his wife\u2019s recovery, he added another emotional request: \u201cMaster of the World, look at the tremendous <em>chessed<\/em> of your people and show us soon the candles of the rebuilding of Zion!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<a class=\"synved-social-button synved-social-button-share synved-social-size-24 synved-social-resolution-single synved-social-provider-facebook nolightbox\" data-provider=\"facebook\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" title=\"Share on Facebook\" 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