{"id":3234,"date":"2015-10-19T13:26:20","date_gmt":"2015-10-19T17:26:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/?p=3234"},"modified":"2015-10-19T13:27:14","modified_gmt":"2015-10-19T17:27:14","slug":"not-a-golem-just-in-need-of-help-by-educational-supervisor-esther-klein","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/not-a-golem-just-in-need-of-help-by-educational-supervisor-esther-klein\/","title":{"rendered":"Not a Golem \u2013 Just in Need of Help by Educational Supervisor Esther Klein"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"pr<\/a>\u201cI must have repeated it four hundred times and I still couldn\u2019t get through to her,\u201d said the young, new preschool teacher. I smiled and said that maybe it has to be four hundred heartbeats from a loving heart\u2026From her face I could tell that the lesson was learned. She now had the key.\u201d
\nThe Tosfos Yom Tov (a sage) assigns the term \u201cgolem\u201d (slang for ‘fool’) to someone who possesses intellectual abilities not yet sufficiently developed and polished. The word, he says, comes from the word golmi, raw, unfinished. We are not speaking here of an ignoramus. \u201cGolem\u201d in the language of the Sages implies \u201cimmaturity.\u201d It is our job to develop the underdeveloped. And how much effort must we put in?
\nHagaon Rabbi Moshe Feinstein zt\u201dl (Shu\u201dt Igros Moshe YD vol. 3, siman 71): \u201cOne must never give up when you see that a student is not learning as he should as long as he is not having a bad effect on anyone else, you must encourage him; maybe he will begin listening and improve his ways. Teachers must realize that their work is melechet hakodesh, a holy task, not like a secular job. He must work faithfully, not according to his salary. It is incumbent upon him once he accepted his position to work to the true extent of his capability.
\nAnd our teachers are trained to do just that. To create an emotional connection and to give and give and give again. But even angelic teachers have limitations. And so what do we do?
\nIn addition, what do we do with a child who comes regularly to Gan (pre-school) at a late or unusually early hour a child who comes to Gan slovenly, dressed inappropriately for the weather, with unkempt hair, with sandals on a cold, rainy day, chronically lice-ridden, regular bedwetting, unclean, neglected impression, no responses to the weekly contact page, no feedback whatsoever on what is taught in Gan, a mother who never makes an appearance in Gan, not even to parties, no birthday celebration. Her food is also inappropriate \u2013 sometimes very sparse, sometimes in exaggerated amounts. She is learning next to nothing and hardly aware that she is sitting in a classroom.
\nWhat do we do? We turn to our partner, Ezer Mizion. With its many, many programs, an answer will almost always be found within its walls. Sometimes it is a Life Coach to work with the mother until she is able to handle the household on her own. Or it may be an understanding volunteer to act as a big sister. Perhaps babysitting or cleaning help for the mother who is overwhelmed or tutoring for the child whose cognitive level is underdeveloped. It may be advice regarding government services and assistance in the red tape that goes with it. The Ezer Mizion telephone number is in the contact page of mosdos (institutions) and individuals throughout Eretz Yisroel.
\nThank you, Ezer Mizion, for enabling us to fulfill what the Torah tells us when it says: \u201cIf your brother becomes impoverished with you\u2026\u201d
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