{"id":4732,"date":"2018-11-07T14:01:39","date_gmt":"2018-11-07T19:01:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/?p=4732"},"modified":"2018-11-07T14:21:42","modified_gmt":"2018-11-07T19:21:42","slug":"it-was-a-hard-week","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/it-was-a-hard-week\/","title":{"rendered":"It Was a Hard Week"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Losing the battle<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

We speak of it as being a \u2018battle with cancer<\/strong>\u2019. Like all battles, it requires an army, each division with its special task, each soldier with a mission to which he devotes his heart and soul. Each \u2018soldier\u2019s very being becomes linked to those he helps. Help comes in many different forms. \u00a0Therapy, living quarters near the clinic, meals, rides. The list goes on and on. This is no 9-5 job where work-related info disappears from the employee or volunteer\u2019s radar as he exits the office.<\/p>\n

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Shopping for his family at the supermarket, Avi, an Ezer Mizion Linked to Life volunteer, \u00a0spots a candy bar that little Yossi likes and, with an unmanly sob, he adds it to his cart. (Yossi\u2019s Mommy used to buy him that candy every Sabbath but now Yossi\u2019s Mommy is \u2026) His phone rings and the shopping cart gets shoved into a corner. The store manager will understand. It\u2019s happened before. His wife will surely understand. She had been tearfully praying when he left the house. It\u2019s Moshe. He needs a ride to the hospital.\u00a0 Now. They just called. His wife has only hours to live. He knew it was coming but when it does\u2026oh,\u00a0 it\u2019s so hard. He will be needed for much more than the ride. He and his fellow Linked 2 Life members had supported the family in so many ways for months. \u201cHashem, give him strength,\u201d he fervently prays as he rushes to his car.<\/p>\n

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Many weeks are filled with joy like when a child wins his battle with leukemia and L2L members drive the family and accumulated paraphernalia home from the hospital.\u00a0 Soon the child will join his friends in their games, a boy like any other boy. A celebratory parade as they enter the home, each one carrying packages, almost dancing up the stairs. Or when we\u2019re invited to a bris by a young father who had been afraid his baby would be named after him. He\u2019s cured now. The nightmare is over.<\/p>\n

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Other weeks are not so. Like this past one. Ora died this week. She had been part of the lives of so many Linked to Life volunteers in Rechasim and Haifa. Her conversation was never about her pain, her anguish. It was only about how grateful she was to each person for everything done for her family.<\/p>\n

“Mere words cannot express my thanks to you for all your help and support. Hashem, in His great compassion and immeasurable love sent me such special agents as yourselves. I bless you all from the bottom of my heart that Hashem should repay you in kind, grant you health, happiness, and success in all your endeavors and nachat from the children. May good and kindness pursue you your entire lives.”<\/em><\/p>\n

These words were written to Ezer Mizion just a few months ago by Ora a”h<\/em>.<\/p>\n

We rallied. We tried to smooth the way for them, do the little extras to bring some sunshine into their numbered days together. The medical staff fought hard. We fought hard to keep up their spirits. And we lost. Ora is gone.\u00a0 Ezer Mizion will be there for the family, with the practical, with the emotional as long as we\u2019re needed. We\u2019ll be their cushion, their pillar.<\/p>\n

It was a hard week.\u00a0 There was a family at Ezer Mizion\u2019s Summer Camp whose mother spent the time in bed on pain killers, under the supervision of medical staff, coming out for meals and some low-key activities. How gratifying to have been the catalyst for fortifying the family as they shared an enjoyable time together\u2026 their last. A day before camp ended, the mother was hospitalized. The children stayed on to finish camp. Ezer Mizion was with the children when they were told the bitter news of their mother\u2019s demise. The younger ones hugged each other in a bundle of grief and said: \u201cEzer Mizion will help Abba and us. They never leave us to be alone!\u201d<\/p>\n

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It was a hard week. A single mother of young children. Another young mother. And a sixteen year old boy with a brain tumor. Four young mothers and one young boy in one week.<\/p>\n

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Hashem, please give all of us at Ezer Mizion strength to be their strength. And Hashem, please hold them tight in Your embrace. Hug them. Comfort them. And wipe away all their tears.<\/p>\n\"Facebook\"<\/a>\"twitter\"<\/a>\"pinterest\"<\/a>\"linkedin\"<\/a>\"mail\"<\/a>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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