{"id":6289,"date":"2021-12-01T12:39:15","date_gmt":"2021-12-01T17:39:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/?p=6289"},"modified":"2021-12-01T14:44:12","modified_gmt":"2021-12-01T19:44:12","slug":"to-really-see-to-really-care","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ezermizion.org\/blog\/to-really-see-to-really-care\/","title":{"rendered":"To Really See. To Really Care."},"content":{"rendered":"\n

It\u2019s a talent. An innate ability found in only a few. The ability to notice. To really see. To understand what someone else needs. Only a few have it but the few can give it over to the many.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Rabbi Chananya Chollak<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Chananya Chollak, who founded Ezer Mizion in 1979, was such a person. A new chosson (groom) who would be expected to be involved in his kallah (bride) and not be able to see anything outside of new marriage, was spending time with his hospitalized father-in-law and became aware of the many problems facing the families of the patients.  It was there that several divisions of the future Ezer Mizion were born. What began with 8 volunteers to provide meals for family members spending hours at the hospital bedside and a professionally outfitted van to transport the wheelchair-bound has mushroomed into an empire of chessed with 30,000 volunteers, all who have absorbed Rav Chollak\u2019s ability to really see and really care. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Cancer Support Comes in Many Forms<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

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Like Rina, a patient in the oncology ward. She was battling for her life but right now, uppermost in her mind, was her daughter who would normally be celebrating her bas mitzvah. What with all energies going toward fighting the cancer, this most special day was expected to pass with hardly a blip.  But Rina was an Ezer Mizion client and that made all the difference. Professional studio pictures taken at her home. A sweet table to vie those at the fanciest event. A cake donated for the occasion by an elite patisserie. A makeup artist for both of them who would wield the wand and turn them into princesses.  No detail was omitted by Shula, the volunteer who really saw and really cared.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Caring Eases the Trauma<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Then there was the recent fire in Yerushalayim. People were being evaluated en masse. The need to evacuate was obvious and the volunteers were working hard. What wasn\u2019t so obvious is the fact that a group of yeshiva bochurim (students) had not had anything to eat since the early morning. Moments after they arrived to safety, there appeared pizza pies galore. The starving boys never would have asked but grins on their faces showed how welcome the unexpected treat was.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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A Day to Look Forward to for the Disabled<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The first step in creating a new division is seeing the need. Matan in Nechalim was born because it became obvious to Rav Chollak that handicapped adults need something more than care. They need self-esteem \u2013 the kind that comes from accomplishment. And how can they accomplish when they cannot even move from here to there? Ideas were tossed around, debated, discarded, re-evaluated until a full program came into being. A program that gets these talented young people to leave their homes early, excited to begin their day. They\u2019re taught 3-D printing, crafts, and much more\u2026skills that can generate income, activities that create positive social interaction. Recently their creations were proudly displayed at a fair where crowds converged at the individual tables where each one\u2019s products were admired and many purchased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The files are filled with thank you notes from people who are longing to express their gratitude for the practical and emotional support. Many join our volunteer groups, anxious to give back to others what they received in their time of crisis. And many are accompanied by donations but none so poignant as the following written in childish scrawl: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u2019m a 12 year old cancer patient sending you my donation. I want to thank you with my whole heart for all the good and fun things you give me.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Thank you so much,<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Y.S.<\/em><\/p>\n\"Facebook\"<\/a>\"twitter\"<\/a>\"pinterest\"<\/a>\"linkedin\"<\/a>\"mail\"<\/a>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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